Then, said Almitra,
Speak to us of Love.
And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and
there fell a stillness upon them. And with a great voice he said:
When love beckons to you, follow him, Though his ways
are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though
the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to
you believe in him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the
north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you.
Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he
ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver
in the sun, So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their
clinging to the earth. Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked. He sifts you to free you from your
husks. He grinds you to whiteness. He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred
bread for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may
know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment
of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and
love's pleasure, Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness
and pass out of love's threshing-floor, Into the seasonless world where
you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of
your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from
itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is
sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart,"
but rather, "I am in the heart of God." And think not you can direct the
course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its
melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be
wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and
joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for
another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's
ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep
with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon
your lips.*
*Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, "On Love," (1923).
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Then Almitra spoke
again and said, And what of Marriage, master?
And he answered saying:
You were born together, and together you shall be
forevermore. You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter
your days. Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the
heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a prison of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your
souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one
another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance
together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the
strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For
only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together yet
not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak
tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.*
*Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, "On Marriage,"
(1923).
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And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, Speak to us of
Children.
And he said:
Your children are not your children. They are the sons
and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but
not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For
they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their
souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot
visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make
them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living
arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the
infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift
and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that
is stable.*
*Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, "On Children,"
(1923).
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Then said a rich man, Speak to us of Giving.
And he answered:
You give but little when you give of your possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
For what are your possessions but things you keep and
guard for fear you may need them tomorrow? And tomorrow, what shall
tomorrow bring to the overprudent dog burying bones in the trackless
sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?
And what is fear of need but need itself? Is not dread
of thirst when your well is full, the thirst that is unquenchable?
There are those who give little of the much which they
have--and they give it for recognition and their hidden desire makes
their gifts unwholesome. And there are those who have little and give it
all. These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their
coffer is never empty.
There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their
reward. And there are those who give with pain, and that pain is their
baptism.
And there are those who give and know not pain in
giving, nor do they seek joy, nor give with mindfulness of virtue; They
give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its fragrance into space.
Through the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their
eyes He smiles upon the earth.
It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give
unasked, through understanding; And to the open-handed the search for
one who shall receive is joy greater than giving. And is there aught you
would withhold? All you have shall some day be given; Therefore give
now, that the season of giving may be yours and not your inheritors'.
You often say, "I would give, but only to the
deserving." The trees in your orchard say not so, nor the flocks in your
pasture. They give that they may live, for to withhold is to perish.
Surely he who is worthy to receive his days and his nights, is worthy of
all else from you.
And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life
deserves to fill his cup from your little stream. And what desert
greater shall there be, than that which lies in the courage and the
confidence, nay the charity, of receiving? And who are you that men
should rend their bosom and unveil their pride, that you may see their
worth naked and their pride unabashed?
See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and
an instrument of giving. For in truth it is life that gives unto
life--while you, who deem yourself a giver, are but a witness.
And you receivers--and you are all receivers--assume no
weight of gratitude, lest you lay a yoke upon yourself and upon him who
gives. Rather rise together with the giver on his gifts as on wings; For
to be overmindful of your debt, is to doubt his generosity who has the
freehearted earth for mother, and God for father.*
*Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, "On Giving,"
(1923).
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Then an old man, a
keeper of an inn, said, Speak to us of Eating and Drinking.
And he said:
Would that you could live on the fragrance of the earth,
and like an air plant be sustained by the light.
But since you must kill to eat, and rob the newly born
of its mother's milk to quench your thirst, let it then be an act of
worship. And let your board stand an altar on which the pure and the
innocent of forest and plain are sacrificed for that which is purer and
still more innocent in man.
When you kill a beast say to him in your heart, "By the
same power that slays you, I too am slain; and I too shall be consumed.
For the law that delivered you into my hand shall deliver me into a
mightier hand. Your blood and my blood is naught but the sap that feeds
the tree of heaven."
And when you crush an apple with your teeth, say to it
in your heart, "Your seeds shall live in my body, And the buds of your
tomorrow shall blossom in my heart, And your fragrance shall be my
breath, And together we shall rejoice through all the seasons."
And in the autumn, when you gather the grapes of your
vineyards for the winepress, say in your heart, "I too am a vineyard,
and my fruit shall be gathered for the winepress, And like new wine I
shall be kept in eternal vessels."
And in winter, when you draw the wine, let there be in
your heart a song for each cup; And let there be in the song a
remembrance for the autumn days, and for the vineyard, and for the
winepress.*
*Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, "On Eating and
Drinking,"
(1923).
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Then
a ploughman said, Speak to us of Work.
And he answered, saying:
You work that you may keep pace with the earth and the
soul of the earth. For to be idle is to become a stranger unto the
seasons, and to step out of life's procession, that marches in majesty
and proud submission towards the infinite.
When you work you are a flute through whose heart the
whispering of the hours turns to music. Which of you would be a reed,
dumb and silent, when all else sings together in unison?
Always you have been told that work is a curse and
labour a misfortune. But I say to you that when you work you fulfill a
part of earth's furthest dream, assigned to you when that dream was
born, And in keeping yourself with labour you are in truth loving life,
And to love life through labour is to be intimate with life's inmost
secret.
But if you in your pain call birth an affliction and the
support of the flesh a curse written upon your brow, then I answer that
naught but the sweat of your brow shall wash away that which is written.
You have been told also that life is darkness, and in
your weariness you echo what was said by the weary. And I say that life
is indeed darkness save when there is urge, And all urge is blind save
when there is knowledge, And all knowledge is vain save when there is
work, And all work is empty save when there is love; And when you work
with love you bind yourself to yourself, and to one another, and to God.
And what is it to work with love? It is to weave the
cloth with threads drawn from your heart, even as if your beloved were
to wear that cloth. It is to build a house with affection, even as if
your beloved were to dwell in that house. It is to sow seeds with
tenderness and reap the harvest with joy, even as if your beloved were
to eat the fruit. It is to charge all things you fashion with a breath
of your own spirit, And to know that all the blessed dead are standing
about you and watching.
Often have I heard you say, as if speaking in sleep, "He
who works in marble, and finds the shape of his own soul in the stone,
is nobler than he who ploughs the soil. And he who seizes the rainbow to
lay it on a cloth in the likeness of man, is more than he who makes the
sandals for our feet."
But I say, not in sleep but in the overwakefulness of
noontide, that the wind speaks not more sweetly to the giant oaks than
to the least of all the blades of grass; And he alone is great who turns
the voice of the wind into a song made sweeter by his own loving.
Work is love made visible. And if you cannot work with
love but only with distaste, it is better that you should leave your
work and sit at the gate of the temple and take alms of those who work
with joy.
For if you bake bread with indifference, you bake a
bitter bread that feeds but half man's hunger. And if you grudge the
crushing of the grapes, your grudge distils a poison in the wine. And if
you sing though as angels, and love not the singing, you muffle man's
ears to the voices of the day and the voices of the night.*
*Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, "On Work,"
(1923).
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